Friday, 25 February 2011
The Onion Relationship Duality
This one is just a thought that had crossed my mind some time back.. Penning it down just now.
The beauty of any relationship does not lie in the intimacy we share with someone but it is in the intricacy of the layers of emotion in that relation. A good relation is like that mixture of spices which brings out every single flavor of life. Love, anger, jealousy, pride and every other emotion that we feel is the result of our relation with people or with things, tangible or otherwise. We love our parents, get angry at our kith, get jealous of our colleagues, feel pride in our self.. But a relation which witnesses all the emotions, will be the strongest of all. And the only relation which has such multi-dimensional feeling is friendship.
Monday, 14 February 2011
Valentine Color Conundrum
There are a few things which intrigue me about this time of the year..
Now from what I hear from people experience in the matters of love, it is supposed to be a very colorful thing but ironically you will see that the spectrum of colours in this love weeks gets reduced to just reds and pinks.. I mean if love is so colorful then why not depict it in rainbow colors..
Let’s look at the different people who get impacted by this “carnival” of love…For the couples it is very straight forward, they know what, where and with whom they would be spending the day. For singles as well it is very simple as they know it is a buffet and they can go and fish whatever they want. The people on which this time is the hardest are the people who are neither single nor in any relationship. The people who are living in uncertainties are the worst victim of this love-week. For them the spectrum of colors keeps moving from the lovely pinks to lonely grays. They don’t know whether the person who they want to spend the time with wants the same and also they cant be completely free to enjoy the buffet.
Tuesday, 16 February 2010
Let's make a deal...
Saturday, 26 December 2009
The Big G of Globalization and our Virtual-Pangea
** Disclaimer** This is an essay I wrote for one of B-School entrance exams.. therefore it's more of my brain and less of my heart doing the talking here.. Sincere apologies!! :)
When Rudyard Kipling said that East and West shall never meet, he also said,
“There is neither East nor West, Border, nor Breed, nor Birth,
When two strong men stand face to face, though they come from the ends of the earth”.
These words have come true today, with people from East and West standing face to face, realising the importance of not only sharing knowledge, technology and culture with each other but also working together to achieve continuous improvement in all aspects of their socio-economic life.
However, India and China are not the only countries in the east and neither is US alone the representative of entire western community. To achieve true globalization, we need every country and culture to be an equal participant.
Wednesday, 24 June 2009
The Chance..
Monday, 23 February 2009
The dream...
My manager asked me what my plans for future were and whether i was going to stay with Infy and whether I was planning for higher studies.. and i said yes.
Saying number one... Think before you speak.. and i was found guilty of making the same mistake again.
He asked whether I would be leaving Infy then.. I said yes if i get through a good college.. I will.
Saying number two.. Honesty is the best policy.. may be.. may be not. Honesty might be good for the soul but can be bad for your career.
I told him that yes I have plans for higher studies and would like to try once I go back..
When I asked him why suddenly this discussion came up.. he said he wanted to file H1-B for me as I was one of the top performers and there where projects in US...
Saying number three and the burden of realisation... arrow from a bow and words from mouth do not come back. It was so true for me tonight.
I had shut down down the doors to one of the biggets opportunities I would ever get.. I sacrificed it to my dream since last 5 years.. an MBA.
And immediately after the call I felt I have made a mistake.But it has so often happend to me that the decisions I have thought to be good for me have turned up futile.
Finally it made me wonder... Is life really about making the right decisions.. or is it about making the difficult ones and still have a smile on your face..and hoping against hope that the decision you made is correct.